Happy Holidays 2012!!

Let this year be a year of love, hope, wealth and health!!! Welcome 2012. and i hope you will bring good things to us! :)

Just ended a 4D 3N getaway to Genting with my Dear Boyfriend. :)

Its been long since we had a couple holiday together and this time we went overseas to welcome the 2012!! Contented and happy that we can spend the quality time together. Eat, travel, play, rest, celebrate, sight-seeing...... Me don't have to worry about where to go cos he'll always plan and do his homework of where can we go prior travelling.. I must say i'm fortunate that i do not have to plan anything.. Hee Hee... :).. Love ya!

And i can't wait for our next holiday!

Aside from that, i had a small update with a girlfriend of mine yesterday and its sad that her new year wasn't really good. When a girl is upset, means there is something to do with relationship. Its quite disappointed to find out that after 3 years of their strong relationship together, the bf was quite close to another girl for the past 6 months. Constant msg-ing, calling..... the more i think the more angry i am. That is why i can't but to vent out my anger and disappointed in that bunch of men.

Men usually think that girl come so close to them is because they're good in handling them. They always thought that even if the girl likes them and they don't like the girl- It is super ok, and thats why still keeping in contact and talking with them its ok. Its not okay! From a girlfriend point of view, i have to stress its super not ok. It is very obvious that the 3rd party likes the guy and with this, the 3rd party will thought that she still have freaking chance of getting together with the guy. And she, act blur, act cute, try to be weak and keep on contacting the guy.. End of the day - the one which who will be hurt, jealous, sad, disappointed.... will be the girlfriend which stood by him for 3 years.

They always thought that their reasons were all correct when being confronted. But seriously not all is correct and stop thinking that everything they did is the correct thing. Can't they just don't be so close to the girl?

When a girl sets her eyes on a guy, no matter who came over to her, her motive will still be the same. After years, she will still like that guy. So its up to the guy to make the correct & righteous move.

Sometimes they may think that she is better than his gf. Sweet talking and going out with her gives them the 'kick' and freshness. Maybe they will be happy that they still got the charisma to half-hook another girl. What for? If they think that they're much more happier and high with her then might as well marry her for good. After sometimes, the feeling will fade and everything will not be that fresh anymore. This is what happened after 3 years. It is real sad if the cycle keeps on repeating itself.

If the gf keeps on knowing that he is more concern and sweet towards the 3rd party. Guess how will she feels? Whats worst, lying for the past 6 mths....... i don't understand why they can be like that? Good towards the gf and also sweet towards the 3rd party. And end of the day, say that nothing happens, merely friends.. there's nothing wrong.

They don't know what the gf had gone through. When she needs him, was he there? when she needs a hug, was he there? When she needs a sweet msg, did he sent? When she needs the truth, its all lies and lies.

Guys thought they can handle everything well.. To speak the truth, they can't even handle the 3rd party well. Don't know how to reject and prevent and holdback.

If there're something happy that you wanna share and the first person that you think of is NOT your girlfriend or future wife.. then i think its quite sad.. Shouldn't she be the first one who you want share happiness and sadness with?

3 years of love can't compare to a 6mths.. How sad can that be?

I really feel for my friend. There's nothing much i can do but just hope that everything will be back to normal for her......

:)

OKies. Back to the post. Looking back at all the previous posts, each post has their own purpose and meaning and i'm quite happy that i jotted most of them down in the blog. At least i can see how my life fluctuates......

Hope 2012 will be a better one for all of us in terms of Work, Wealth, Health & Love.

I wanna thank God for bring me and love ones through the hard times as well as the happy times of 2011. Say bye to 2011 and Welcome 2012!! :)